Should i stay with my bipolar girlfirend and go back or let it end?
Would you leave your girlfriend if she was bipolar and had an episode where she broke up with you on your birthday cause your sisters friend came over where we have a past of my gf keying her car while i was in the passenger seat guess who both payed and she hates her. So she flips out and breaksup with me saying all this bs. Then the next day she runs in my house at my b day party where she starts freaking out on me for drinking less than enough to get me drunk cause i had a problem and calls the cops saying i was having an underage party so about 25 kids ran out of my house and the cops came. My parents were so luck not to get fined there was nothing in the yard. So is it worth it to stay in this 7 month relationship. I love her so much and understand she has a problem. But im at the point where im saying i dont care im not chasing after you anymore. You need to get youself managed with your disorder. I dont know what to do last time we broke up i became somewhat of an lsd head and drank evreynight till i crashed and have been in recovery.
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sounds like a bad relationship!
you need to break up and move on unless your willing to put up with episodes like this for the rest of your life .
maybe one day in the future your paths will cross again but for now it seems like its just not meant to be.
I know break ups are hard but after a few weeks it gets easier and easier. metting new people , doing different things, not calling her ! all helps. reuniting with an old friend is great too! you never know what your missing out on untill your free! and as for drinking… try to do without. its a coping thing and you can find other ways to deal like getting your friends to introduce you to there friends etc… i been through atleast 20 break ups!! each one felt like the end of the world…. and then something better always came along… well 95% of the time lol…
Sounds like you have a pretty unhealthy relationship.
Might just be best for the both of you to break contact completely and go your seperate ways. It’ll suck, a lot, for the first few months but you’ll both be a lot happier further down the track.
I had a boyfriend I thought I couldn’t live without, blah, blah, blah.. but I had really bad depression and anxiety at the time (I still do, but taking meds to help) it ruined the relationship but since I’m out of it I’m a lot happier and have gotten places I didn’t think I ever would. And my ex is doing great aswell.
oh god, i know exactly how you feel.
okay well honestly when its over, its over.
it will never get better if thats what your thinking once it gets passed the point of no return trying to “fix” it only ends up hurting you worse, what she did was ridiculous yes and if you love her and want to fix things go ahead but ive been in this way too many times to kknow you might just be better off without it life is to short to deal with those things surround yourself with people who make you happy and smile because life is too short to be anything but happy
shes a loser and will soon enough tear you up and spit you out I promise cuz ive been there and fell in love with one (worse mistake in my life) and believe it or not she still tries to get in touch with me after 7 years. She did nothing but temporarally destroyed my pride and it hurt for a long time
You will never be able to “fix” your bipolar gf. Her mental illness is sad, but I am sure you are at least a half-decent catch, so break up with her now. Otherwise, she will be like another child to take care of, if not that, she at best is not going to be stable. My best friend’s father is bipolar, and he never contributed emotionally to the family, and could not even be relied upon financially. I also know a young 20 year old girl who is with a bipolar guy, and she is almost as up and down as he is. Do not feel obligated to marry her, she is not your responsibility. She will not be able to be a stable mother to your future children. Best wishes!